How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

 
Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.
 
The first step in the heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
 
Let her fall in love gradually. Romance is an important part of falling in love. Whe
n in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me.
No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.

What is She Thinking During Sex? Sexy Hot Things in Her Mind When ...

 
During sex, a woman's brain still works and is speeding up a hundred miles per hour with a lot questions. It's not really a matter of insecurity --- women can just get a little paranoid that's why. And of course, they want to make sure they come off as a good lover as well. Men and women think about totally different things during sex and it's about time you finally know what bugs her the most during your sack sessions. Don't worry --- it won't kill you. So here are some hot things in her mind when making love. Find out what she's thinking about during sex now!

• Am I doing it right? Women want to find out if they're pleasing you as well. They may not let you know about this sudden need to satisfy because women rely on body language a lot, especially when having sex. The next time you make love, make her feel that you're having a great time as well --- she's going to get that as cue to be a little more aggressive and creative with you.
• How many women have you slept with? Some women prefer men with experience --- it adds up to your expertise and sensuality. However, they also cannot help but wonder how many women you've slept with in the past. No, don't blurt out the numbers right in the middle of your steamy lovemaking. When she asks, it's your prerogative if you want to lie or not --- but answer her with a straight face. She'd quit bugging you after that.
• Am I beautiful? The eternal question of every woman to every man they're with. It is very important for a male to make his female feel that she is beautiful and sexy --- it add a notch higher to their confidence and it makes them feel loved and desired for. You want to make a woman happy? Constantly remind her that she will always be a goddess to you --- saying it during sex would also be so much exciting.
• Do I make you feel good? She may have asked you this out loud during your little lovemaking and you may have said yes --- however, she's still wondering if she is making you feel good at all. Sometimes, mere words are not enough for the female species. You have to show them what you mean. So next time, don't answer her the conventional way. Instead, moan and groan her name while you're at it and she'll definitely be sure by now.

How To Keep The Excitement In Your Sexual Life

Maintaining an exciting and intimate sex life is necessary in keeping your relationship healthy. Most of the time couples are too occupied that they forget their relationship needs. Keeping the spark in your sex life is necessary to maintain your strong relationship and the bond between you and your partner close. Below are some tips in keeping your relationship exciting.
 
Make sex a fun activity. Rather than thinking that sex is a chore that has to be done, see it as a fun activity. If you are already getting bored with your usual sex routine, then it is time to make your bedroom a fun-filled place. Try holding your partner closer to you when she least expect it. Recall the time when your passion towards each other is burning and you cannot keep your hands away from each other. Instead of setting as a schedule to have sex with your partner, take time to have fun and enjoy each other. It is not a duty that you have to finish but rather it is something intimate that you share with your partner. Never force yourself to have sex just to please your partner, but rather see it as an exciting activity.
Indulge yourself in foreplay. Foreplay is important to set you and your partner's mood. Taking time to please each other before hitting the main course will make sex more exciting. Revive the fire of you sexual relationship by taking some time to explore each other's body. Intimacy does not just come from sex itself but also from the fun while leading to sex. Spend more time in foreplay and you will realize that the excitement you have for each other is far greater than you expected.
Have sex in different places. If making love in the bedroom starts to bore you, then try to find other places where you can do the deed. Nothing beats the thrill and adrenaline rush of making love in a different place. Try making love in the couch like the way you do when you were teenagers. Add spice to your sexual relationship by using whipped cream, chocolate and honey and doing the deed in the food counter of your kitchen. Get inside the car with your partner, park somewhere and make love on the backseat. Try making the search for different places to have sex as a habit and you will not consider your sexual life dull as gray.
Try new positions. You might consider yourself a master because you already know how to make her reach the big O in your typical positions. However, doing the same sexual position every time you make love may cause the spark of the activity to disappear. There is more to making love than missionary or woman on top. You can try spooning her, doggie style or any moves you have seen on TV or read in the magazines. Trying new position needs a high level of arousal, thus, choose a perfect timing to hit a new pose.
Having sex is not just doing the deed, but rather tightening the bond you have with your partner. Trying out new stuff can help make your relationship stay on fire.

Love in the Backseat

Sketches From the Book - "Romances of a Midwinter Soldier"
Augsburg. Germany
1) Love in the Backseat
(Chris Steward's Sandwiches) (9-1970)
At the 1/36th Artillery
Boot camp was boot camp, and I was for the most part, a midwinter soldier, in that I was, or it was midwinter when I ended up in book camp and that is in itself another story, under the heading of the Novelette, "A Midwinter Soldier."
 
While in boot camp, we marched in the rain, and in the light snows of North Carolina, Fort Bragg, it was the winter of 1969 when it was all completed, and I'd head on to Alabama for my advance training. I had met a girl at the EM-Club, on the base at Fort Bragg, a German girl, but everyone was after her, and I was drinking in a location new recruits were not suppose to drink, so I said my hellos as much as I could when I drank at the club, got my eyes full of her, and kept my distance, I preferred to drink, than to have a short relationship with her, and had I fooled around with her, I'm sure the other crowed-those soldiers who were stationed at Fort Bragg on a permanent bases, the ones that stood sullenly around her hoping to amuse her enough to take her to bed, would inform the captain of my company that I was not allowed there, and thus, cause me trouble, and at the same time reduce the completion.
 
At the end of book camp, we had a beer bash, at Fort Bragg, and a lot of memories to bring home, the trials and tribulations of the Mess Hall, and peeling those potatoes on KP, and running around that three-mile field, like horses, with rubber hoofs, and the fighting Irish in me with my fellow soldiers, and my confrontation with the Captain of our company over my attitude and behavior, my drinking and madness, my low opinion of the drill sergeants. And on and on (another story in itself): but I made it anyhow, which I was doubtful a few times if I would. Not because I felt the Army was too rough, or too disciplined, or two physical, but it was simply just too disrespectful, and I had a hard time adjusting to that and nothing else, and I rebelled, and somewhere along the line, came to an understanding, I'd have to be jammed solid in the Army, and march halfway with it, or run to Canada, like a lost camel, and sleep on someone else couch I suppose, hiding, and looking in mirrors, so I changed my reasoning and perhaps the Captain gave me a better understanding on the matter, and yes I became in time a good soldier, or if not good a well balanced, holding no grudges soldier.
In Advance Training, at Redstone Arsenal, Alabama, by Huntsville, I had met two girls there also, but again, the training took too many hours away from my daily thirst for girls, you couldn't really have both: good training and an Alabama relationship. And I didn't want to look for hookers.

But the two girls, me and my friend, an Indian, who would reunite with me in Vietnam, walked through the park with the girls, had some chants, and that was that; and onto my next duty station I went, in six weeks.
Augsburg, Germany, the 1/36 Artillery; this would be my home base for ten-months. And I was fascinated with it, with Germany per se, its culture, traditions, foods, likes and dislikes, its history, its maps, and of course its beer, which was stronger than the American caned beer.
Chris Steward, a German-Jew, started coming over to see me on guard duty often, I had met her in a dance hall, and she had called me over to her side one evening, about two months after I arrived in Augsburg, she was quite wealthy, and a manager of a Pizzeria. Had a new sports car, and took a liking to me. She was conceivably a few inches shorter than I, but not more than that, thin, and simply cups for breasts, but a pretty German girl-all in all, and intelligent in many ways. And she was like that Sharon girl, in that she loved sex, and when we had it, she came through, or we came through, like two logs grinding against one another. She was as hardy with her business lifestyle as well.
I don't want to cut down any old lovers, but the Shadow, a woman I dated prior to Chris, was in comparison, quite clumsy, crude and elemental, in that area.
With Chris, I always assumed this is what was happening: business, sex and buried in the sand with her daughter, Carmen. She was strict with her ten year old, and took no liking for me to give advice in her rearing methods, which could be harsh at times.
I had told her once during a bowling session, with her and her daughter, told her not to slap her in the face, when I was around,
"Don't talk that way to me," she inquisitively and angrily replied, "Carmen did wrong (and she did)..." she had told her daughter to go wash it off, the ice-cream, she had spilt on her hands, I had bought her some without Chris' permission, and Carmen was not suppose to accept the gift, which I didn't know. The child was not happy, and got a little moody with her, and Chris's response was (just before the slap) "Don't get huffy with me, Carmon, just because Dennis is here, it doesn't mean the rules are different (then 'slap...!')"
But that was just one occasion; she was all right normally, because a few minutes later she asked,
"Was anything the matter?" looking at me, and I said-looking at her and over to her daughter, and back to her, "No," I said, trying not to remember the argument, and slap, and her temper, which was for the most part, not, more often than not, out of control.
Chris came over this one evening, I was at the gate, a Security Guard at Reese Military Base: she pulled up across the street, parked her car, it was a no parking zone; but I was used to her doing things like that, so it was not out of the ordinary.
She came over to see me in my little corner hut, by the gate, where I waved in cars, checked out identifications, and checked out motor vehicles for violations, such as contraband and so forth. She was silent sort of, as if she was thinking. I was sitting inside the little hut, my joystick, on my lap, you know those sticks you are given as police officers to wound your assailants with, in case of need.
Anyhow, there she was, looking at me through the open window space,
"Dear, I don't think I have much time, but here is a sandwich, I want to talk to you, its ham and eggs, I know you like them."
"Can we talk later," I almost begged her, knowing she could be insist especially at times when told her 'no'.
"No." she had said, handing over the sandwich, "We can go in my car and sit and talk."
I thought about her 'no,' and if anything gets to me, is disrespect, and I said harshly, "Are you going to argue with me or leave, I got work to do!"
She started to cry, then I figured it must be serious, I had never seen her cry before (likened to my mother who I only saw once cry, and that was when I defied the judge, and told him to put me in jail for underage drinking, I wanted to be like my brother, and he did just that, but instead of jail, he put me into pre-trial, detention home for two weeks, and at the end of one, he visited me, and I told him, in so many words, I had enough of jail, and crime, and he smiled, and I was out in another week.) So, I felt, this must be serious, and accordingly I said, "Can't you explain it here, right here while I eat?"
"Sorry, but I can't" she said wiping her tears on her beautiful mink coat.
"It's all right," I said, "I'll wake up Jim; he'll take over for me for a while."
And I did just that, and we went to her car, in the wee hours of the morning, and she talked, and I listened. She had lost $50,000-dollars, when the Mark went up, and the dollar went down (when I arrived in Germany, the Mark was 3.5 to a dollar, and now it had hit a low, the dollar that is.)
It was a frightfully chilly morning, and after Chris told me her troubles, she got into the backseat, and said,
"Ok, I want to make love."
I thought about it, it would be jamming two bodies into a Mustang, and that was hard to do. Jim motioned to me, there was a police car parked a block away, parked, waiting for American soldiers I suppose to be drunk racing down the street, coming back from a late night at one of the clubs.
In any case, I jammed an absolute tired body into her backseat, and we lay there in perfect harmony, until the action started, and it seemed like I was hitting barricades along side my hips, head, everyplace, worried half the time, those police officers would come and check us out, but Chris could care less.
She tried to get over me, and I her, and somehow we worked it out, and what were obstacles at one time, were now gone-or at least forgotten for the meantime, and at the end of the getting together, the gradually getting used to reality again fluttering on the peak of trying, with two aching bodies, we both fell back, and laughed, and I went back to work, and she, I thing, went back home.

Improving Sex For Couples - Make Love Outdoors

Improving sex for couples can be as easy as changing the location in which you make love. Couples who are married or have been in long term relationships understand how easy it is to fall into a routine. You make love in the same place, use the same foreplay techniques, have the same type of climax and on and on.
Breaking the routine by making love in a different location is a great way for improving sex for couples and is something everyone should consider. If you happen to be a shy individual and you find it difficult to step outside your comfort zone then I would suggest you start by making love in different rooms of your house, along with trying different positions.
If you happen to have already mastered the art of love making all through your house and are looking for a different way of improving sex for couples then the great outdoors may be just for you. The most common place where people make love outdoors is the car. Now if you happened to have actively practiced this in high school then you are one step ahead of many.
Most prefer the backseat to the front and if you have had any practice making love at home in the living room sitting on a couch then you will be fine in a car. Remember that a car is supposed to be somewhat cramped and difficult, that is part of the excitement.
Parking the car may be the hardest part of this method for improving sex for couples. You need to find a place that is private but not too private. One of the most exciting parts of making love outdoors is the risk that you might be seen out in public. If you drive out to the middle of nowhere where only the trees and animals can see you it steals the excitement. Look for a park or turn out where cars will be going by.
A friendly warning, this method of improving sex for couples should be attempted mostly during the night as no one can really see what is going on while they are driving by and headlights are a great warning if someone gets too close. Also, watch out for police, you can get yourself in a bit of hot water for exposing yourself in public.
Once you have mastered the car, start examining other outdoor areas that don't involve the car. Making love under the starlight, with a blanket and your partner can be a highly arousing situation. The biggest key here is that you are taking steps at broadening your sexual boundaries and discovering new ways at improving sex for couples.

Tips to Arouse Her Into Making Love

There are several differences between men and women on how to arouse intimate contact. In general men are easier to get ready in sex than women. If men are in perfect health, only bit of teases can get them ready for making love. Thinking of going to bed naked with her partner will be enough to make a man ready. But it doesn't always mean that men don't enjoy foreplay, many of them find that foreplay is an act of love.
To make women enjoy and orgasm comes easily, they need to know that sex is not just a physical necessity, men have to understand that their partners would feel much better in sex if it is related to an expression of love.
A man has to be able to give trust and confidence before seducing his wife and tell her that she is attractive and very appealing. Embrace her to your charm, entice, seduce her, tell her that you love her, slowly until she is attracted to you sexually.
Here are tips and ideas on how to seduce your wife cleverly :

• Give her romantic touch in her day, give her flowers, stick small notes of "I love you" on her make up drawer or on her computer screen or text message her "I need you"
• Express your love to her, love her face, smile, voice, ears, hands, neck and all over her body
• Remind her how you fell in love with her for the first time
• Surprise her by making a special dinner or pour her a glass of wine, then play some of your and her favorite music

After you wife feels attracted to your intimate and romantic approach, then you can invite her to start warming up by touching her hands, arms, face, ears and neck before moving your hands to the more erotic areas. In this way you wife would feel being loved and the feeling would turn into a mood of making love.
Warm acts of love from your heart will thrill her and make her enchanted and needs you forever. Please remember to seduce her with affection, love, tenderness and respect and she will feel that making love to you means a lot to her and she needs it as much as you do.

Couples Making Love - Best Tips For Superior Relationship

For couples making love is the vital reason for making their love relationship stronger and closer. Some couples make love whenever they get time and feel the need and some couples feel the need on specified time like in the night or after bathing, etc. But couples making love can follow some simple and easy rules and they can make their relationship more romantic and picture perfect. However, one should remember that all this will happen only when both the partners are equally participating in the love making.
 

Tips on Women Making Love to Men

Most women would give anything to understand what it is that attracts a man to a woman. The answer is quite simple really. Men are not a mystery. You just need to keep a few things in mind before you make love to him!
o There is no substitute to an exciting and fun female, especially in bed. So, whenever you are concentrating on practicing the umpteenth position from Kamasutra, loosen up! Don't get serious enough not to have fun. Share things in bed, tell him your secret fantasies and encourage him to do the same. You can also try a few sex games to get some 'quality time' together.

o Men have different demands from sex compared to women. They need frequent, consistent and passionate lovemaking. While you may want feel desirable and sexy in bed, he may need a lusty animal! Get more active in bed and chances are you will have him eating out of your hands! Just remember, that does not mean that you use sex as a tool. If you do so, he may just warm up to the game! That means no sex for both of you.
Sex is the means through which most men bond with their women. The act of sexual release makes him feel connected to you. Take that away from him and he gets the message that you no longer care
o A woman who cooks and shares her meals with him is a primeval attraction. So, if you are thinking about a romp in the bedroom, start off with your kitchen!
o Give him his private time. Like women, he needs it to get together with friends, pursue his hobbies and participate in a favorite sport. Give him the time off he wants and he will enjoy his time with you much more.
Practice these tips for women making love to men and become the lady of his dreams!

I've never read a book that practically breaks down the complexities of the female orgasm into an easy to read formula like this one. I actually got my boyfriend to try out some of the techniques in the book and I ended up having wobbly legs the whole day!

Making Love Tips - Quality Over Quantity

Occasionally we speak to those people who appear to experience a limitless sex life. They engage in more sexual activity that ought to be permitted, and we are envious. But do they experience a superior sex life, or merely a larger amount of sexual activity? Wouldn't you preferably have one or two choice sex sessions than ten that just are not all that good? And whenever you experience a quality sex life wouldn't that of course result in more sex between you and your mate and in reality produce more quantity in the end? We all desire more of a good thing correct? So how do we arrive at a quality sex life? What are the making love tips that we need to learn to experience a sound intimate relationship that both mates can treasure and want a lot more of?

One of the beginning things you must do is communicate with your mate. How do you require your partner to bring about pleasure or recognize what it is you would like to accomplish in the bedroom if you can not tell them? Establish time to talk, discuss coming up with new stimulating ways to pleasure one another and then establish time for lovemaking. Quality sexual activity doesn't occur in fifteen minutes. I am not saying that an infrequent quickie does not have it's time, but for quality sexual activity to happen it's going to take some time. I propose two hours but if an hour is entirely all you'll be able to manage to get scheduled then it is better than nothing. Great sex should never be hurried, afford yourself time to relax. Drink a glass of wine and give one another a pleasant massage. Discuss what feels good and what does not. Learn your mates "hot spots" and tell them yours.
Another significant point to great sex and excitement is to add a bit of diversity. Plan on not engaging in actual sexual intercourse for at least half an hour merely savor all the additional sexual things you can do to one another leading up to sexual intercourse. You might even prefer to plan on not having sexual intercourse at all. Make it a challenge to see if you can do it, or not do it in this example. Even if you lose the challenge and do have sex, it's certain to be a challenge you can accept losing and one that comes with a great end result.
Resolve that sexual activity is crucial between you and your mate. Sexual wellness is just as significant to the overall health of your body as physical fitness and eating correctly. Make certain to add sexual activity to your regimen of getting in shape and becoming fit. Practicing your sexual physical exertion will also add a enormous quantity of joy to your love life. Most males are under the belief that pubococcygeus (kegel) exercises are only for females to utilize during maternity, but you men have the same muscles and they need exercise too. Keeping those muscles in good condition will afford you a lot of control over your ejaculations and also make them more assertive. This too will emphatically add to a greater intimate experience.
Some great making love tips are to apply fantasy in your bedroom exploits. Sex therapists articulate that fantasy is a natural component of individual sexuality as long as both partners can distinguish between fantasy and realism. Many couples use videos, masturbation, sexy dance and bondage and domination to turn up the spice in their sex lives. Don't oppress your fantasies, savor them.
Sharing great sexual activity with your mate is a great deal more pleasing than the amount of your sexual activities. Therefore when you hear your acquaintances boasting about their amount you will be able to just relax and recognize they should be envying your incredible sex life.

Making Love With Sex Aids

No matter how good you are at it, at some point of time you always feel like exploring newer arenas during your lovemaking. At times your partners may be little shy or held back by several inhibitions and moral norms but you need to help them come out of it instead of forcing them out. This is a very delicate matter and needs to be addressed carefully. For example, there are several couples that want to experience anal sex, but feel afraid of the pain. During such cases, you can buy them gifts in the form of several sex toys that help them open up to your wishes and you both enjoy something that was missing for long.
 
There are several sex toys like the anal beads, butt plugs and many more, which can help your rear open up your partner. You could also us the various available lubes to help yourself lubricate the tracks to minimize the friction when you are at it violently. Especially with the vibrators, if you use them long and keep them on for the entire day, by the time you meet your partner you are craving them inside your tracks like anything. It is a special gesture by your partner if they gift you with sexy lingerie or a play toy to say that they want you as much and want you to open up further and explore the areas that you have not been.
Thus, instead of holding back try out newer things and make use of sex aids even while you are having sex. In this way, you experience new heights of pleasure and orgasms like you have never felt before. All this can be heightened a little further when you feel like teasing your partner and making them come real hard. It is true that men want to be in command, but at times if you insert a vibrating butt plug into your partners rear the thrusts he makes are real harder than he would originally. Although he might not admit it the orgasm he would have at the end of it all is just too good; moreover, he would hardly soften out.
Further, if you want your partner to feel satiated, you can always plug-in the vibrating dildo in her rear and go at it on her crack. The dual sensation that comes with the sexual aids is extremely passionate and the feeling coming up over the thin membrane - the friction of the vibrating dildo over your cock is intense. You just feel the intensity and come hard and strong along with her and it keeps on for pretty long until you both are exhausted from the pleasure. Moreover, you can use these toys for foreplay as well, to heat up your partner's urges, so that they are ready when you are making love to them.

Having Sex or Making Love

Actually, the difference between the two concepts is bigger than some of us would like it
to be. And, as almost every time, women feel it the most. What is the difference? Well,
love. Women need to be protected, looked after and loved as much in bed as in every day
life.

Keep in mind that this is not just a legend used by women to manipulate men. The
difference between having sex and making love, together with it's implications in a
couple's sex life is what many men forget when sharing the bed-sheets with a woman.
Clearly, everything written so far will not apply to one-night-stands. In those cases it is
all about a sexual intercourse between two people who only share their bodies. After the
bottom line has been drawn, most men feel good about themselves after a one-night-
stand, without thinking about their sexual performance. Totally pleasing a woman from
the very first time is no easy job as the only mystery she had disclosed is her body.
Yet, most men are attracted to one-night-stands or, with other words, to having sex. The
lack of commitment needed and the easy attaining of the main goal: feeling good, are just
two reasons pleading in favor of having sex.
On the other hand there is so much more between a man and a woman making love.
There are feelings and emotions, leading to a totally different connection between the two
of them. More than that, for women, one of the most important things during sex is the
environment. And this means everything from location to those few candles some like to
place around the bed.
Let's take them in turn a little bit. If you want to leave her smiling and begging for a
cigarette and some more there are some things you might like to take into consideration.
Trying dad's old car's rear suspension will make the car happier than her. The ideal
location would certainly be a bed in a nice and cozy room with nothing interfering with
the moment. Someone knocking on the door or even a ringing phone can have very
undesirable effects. Some candle-like lights and easy-listening music in the background
adds even more to the overall foreplay.
Explore every inch of her body and draw imaginary contours with your fingers and
tongue, kiss her neck, breasts, belly and legs, all in a specific order surrounding the most
important area and closing in at the same time. All this will increase the tension and when
that moment comes both you and her will feel the difference.
Communication is essential for great results. Men must pay attention to the unspoken
signs every woman gives them. Ignoring these signs will make women feel used. The old
legend that says that when a woman says "no" she actually means "yes" is nothing more
than a poor excuse so keep your ears open for her desires.

Relationship: Making Love

You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; and just so, you learn to love by loving. All those who think to learn in any other way deceive themselves. Saint Francis de Sales. Rightly said, you learn to love
by loving. You have to make an effort to learn to love. Find out ways to love your partner.
Intimacy is very important to keep a relationship alive and so is passion. They are forms of love. Touch each other and feel each other. Find out ways to love each other in a way you have never done before. Watch movies, read books and get ideas from friends to love in a different way. Never feel shy to experiment to make your relationship interesting. Love in itself is interesting and to experiment more on that adds excitement, vigor and vitality. So keep experimenting.
There are innumerable ways to make you relationship exciting and let there be love in the air.
Sounds silly but you could go skating hand in hand or shout "I love you," in a public place. It is experimenting to make love in a different way. Your lover will be thrilled and excited.
Be a romantic lover and take your lover to the land of dreams. Do the most unnatural of things. If possible try to be crazy like film stars. You have to be crazy in love to make love. Make love as if you are making love for the first time. It shouldn't be something done as a daily routine. There have to be feelings involved and that too, true feelings. So make love differently.
 
You should always surprise your partner with a different way of expressing love. That element of surprise has to be present in a relationship for creating an excitement. As we all know a relationship fades if proper care is not taken. And the element of surprise has to be present when it comes to loving you mate. You do not have to stop loving your partner in the way you always do but you can always add excitement to your relationship by getting a touch of difference to your love life.
Love is essential in a relationship. No relationship can exist without love. You have to make love to keep the love alive. Be lively and find out ways to love your mate in a unique way, something special and different just to love your lover.

Making Love

Over the years I have been aware of a distinction between having sex and making love. Recently I have come to see how far apart they are. In his book 'Indecent Practices and Erotic Trance: Making Sense of Tantra', John Ryan Haule questions our use of the term 'making love' for anything sexual.

During the first week of March I taught in Cape Town and spoke about this on every workshop. As I did I came to see how clear a concept 'making love' is. We all know what sex is and maybe even have had some experience of making love. When I've spoken about the difference, everybody in the room has agreed.

I've come to define sex as a goal oriented genital activity. The goal is orgasm for at least one of the people involved, both if you're lucky and/or know what you're doing. Making love is a different story. The words themselves tell us that we're going to make something, we're going to create it or build it, or mix the ingredients to get something more or different than when we began.
And because it's love that we're making, our hearts are involved.

Our mouths, our hands, our genitals, our bodies become a channel to express that love.
This tells us that there's an intention involved. We're not unconscious of what we're doing, it's not out of habit, as is often the case with sex. We're aware and awake. We're creating something between us, or just with ourselves, that wasn't there before. This act of creation is really exciting because it's done with pleasure, in the name of pleasure.

It forces us to use aspects of our bodies and minds that we wouldn't normally bring to a sexual encounter. We have to take time to make love, get the mixture right, give it time to brew and bake, to heat and settle.

So we slow down from the speed of the world, we can breathe. And we're saying I'm important, you're important, what we have is important. We have value. In valuing we are nourished.

And in making love we're able to feel beautiful, whatever the body looks like. If you can give and receive pleasure at this level, you will feel beautiful. Think about the relief and peace you'll feel accepting yourself because somebody, even yourself, loves you. Now before you jump down my throat and say, 'What about sex?'

Sex is wonderful, orgasms are great! I teach people how to have better sex, how to have awesome 20 minute orgasms. But if sex is all there is, we have a problem. Because it's not enough.
If sex is all there is we will get bored, that is guaranteed. Once we've done everything we possibly can, with every position, every orifice, once, twice, ten times. We will get bored and look for new levels of excitement elsewhere, or stop having sex. What about those not in a relationship? You're not excluded from making love. This doesn't mean orgasm oriented masturbation. It means a sensual exploration of your body, your face, allowing your heart and your genitals to talk to each other, allowing your hands to express your hearts love to your body, feeling and touching your own beauty.

Being open to your own self. For you are a sexual and sensual being in your own right, regardless of whether you're in a relationship or not. You can make beautiful love to and with yourself. Wonderfully, gently, passionately. Are sex and making love exclusive? Of course not, you can make sexual love. Having become aware of this difference and talking about in the massage and touch workshops, it's amazing to see how these experiences can become acts of love-making, where something real and tangible is made. It's also been incredible to watch people make love to themselves and not even touch their genitals on 'Awakening the Sacred Fire', a journey into your own sexuality.

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